Moving on from a break up to getting back together with an ex is by no means an easy thing to accomplish, but hopefully with some helpful tips, you should be able to do so with relatively less problems and with more ease.
Although not a lot of people focus too much on the transitioning process from a break up to getting back together, it is still an important part of the entire getting back together process. If you want to successfully get back together with your ex, you need to know how transition well in order to avoid any problems that may arise later on. Here are a few things that might help you transition smoothly from a break up to getting back together.
Acknowledge The Break Up
Acknowledging that you and your ex are already broken up will your transition a whole lot easier since this will make you understand that you are actually not together anymore, which is why you need to come to a resolution with your ex, and if you are able to fix the problem, then you can pursue to get back together with your ex.
It is in this process that you will understand why you broke up with your ex, which in turn will help you figure out how to get to a resolution for your break up.
Forgive And Forget
If you hope to be able to successfully move on from a break up to getting back together, you and your ex need to learn how to forgive each other for your faults and shortcomings in your past relationship, and forget that part of your past so you can begin rebuilding your relationship and start anew. Getting back together without ironing out this part in your past will only result in another failed relationship later on since unresolved issues such as this will only resurface in your future relationship later on.
Create A Resolution
After talking to each other regarding issues in your relationship that needs resolving, you need to both come up with a resolution for you to be able to move on to your new relationship, whether it is by coming up with a compromise between you and your ex, or by changing some aspects in your relationship. It can vary depending on every relationship, as well as on the factors that caused the relationship to fail previously.
Start Anew
Once you and your ex have agreed on a resolution, it is very important to remember that you are starting anew, which means that although you both were in a relationship before, it doesnt mean that you can bypass the getting back together process and simply be a couple instantly. Since your previous relationship has failed, it is safe to say that starting anew is the best thing for you and your ex to do, so take the time to get to know each other once again just to start things off.
There are no shortcuts in getting back together, but if you are sincere in making a previously failed relationship work this time around, then you should seriously consider taking your time in making it work, and hopefully transition better from being broken up to being back together.