Single parenting can be a tough thing to face. This is especially true for people who got into the situation by accident and therefore are not yet ready for the responsibility that they will need to assume. Taking care of a child can be pretty daunting, all the more when this young fellow depends on you for everythingfor food, shelter and even education in the future. You have your work cut out for you and for some people this can be pretty daunting.
But dont get overwhelmed. Like every challenge that you will need to face in life, there are ways to getting around it and finally overcoming it. You may not be a situation that you can solve right off and get rid of but you can certainly make it easier and more manageable. Here are three things that you can do to survive single parenting.
Join a support group
Just knowing that there are people like you who are also going through the same things is very comforting. So check your community for some support group for young single parents like you.
Joining a support group is also a wonderful way to learn from the experience of other people. And because you are still young and are just starting out, having people who have already gone through what you are just going through right now can help you a lot. They can give you advice or refer you to people who can help.
Often people who are in the same support groups also band together and help each other out. It is like having a second family, with people that you can depend on for help.
Have a strong and close relationship with your child
Your child is your partner now. He or she is the only person that you can depend on, the same way that you are the only one he or she can depend on. Establish a close and loving relationship with your child while he or she is still young. You will be glad when you did this when they grow up.
Know your priorities
Be clear on who your priority is and set some ground rules for your behavior. It should be your child of course and maybe your career, which you need in order to provide well for your child. By knowing your priorities and having clear-cut goals, you will be constantly reminded of what you should be doing. This will come in handy during moments when you are tempted to turn back on your responsibility or just give up.
Give yourself time to heal
You have been burned. Dont go rushing and looking for love right off. Give yourself time to heal and to find yourself again. Going back on the dating scene for the mere reason that you want to find another mate is a no-no. For now, make your child your life and just face that aspect in your life when the right time comes. And when is that? Youll know when.